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Capitalism tho

I tried to get Vaush, leftie youtuber, to schedule a debate with me about veganism in continuation of his debate with Ask Yourself on the subject. He said he already promised to debate the subject with other people. I mentioned I’m a nobody vegan trans woman and he said I’m not a nobody but obviously I meant that I don’t have any significant social presence like Ask Yourself or Vaush, not that I’m literally a nobody – but I do believe I have counter arguments to what he said in his discussion with Ask Yourself so I hoped he would agree to debate me despite not having a significant social media presence.

He did bring up his stance though regarding veganism and I tried to respond but it wasn’t really a platform that allowed me to have a proper back and forth with him and I’m not brimming with tons of disposable income to keep donating so he will respond to what I write.

Anyway, it was basically the tired old “no ethical consumption under capitalism”. He acknowledged that the animal industry is unethical, but he claimed that it’s a slippery slope such that the same logic would lead to you not buying clothes because many of them are made in sweat shops. For one thing, you can go to clothes trading events where people trade for free the clothes they don’t need and pick up clothes they do need and still be vegan. No matter what you do, you have to eat, so eating vegan instead of non-vegan does not come at the expense of other positive activities beyond an adjustment period, more on that later in this post.

I responded by saying you can’t use “capitalism tho” as a justification because making a t-shirt does not inherently involve exploitation regardless of capitalism, eating animals does. Even in a post-capitalism society animals would still need to be killed to eat them, animals would still need to be put in “rape racks” (that’s the industry term) to get them pregnant so you can get milk from them, we would still need to steal their babies or we would not get their milk, and male chicks would still be useless to the egg industry and so would probably be ground up alive like they are today, we would still need to be using large fishing nets that destroy our ocean eco system that we need to survive. Maybe some day we will have lab meat cheaply available for all, but until then – this is the reality of buying animal products.

To compare all of those never ending horrors on a never ending unfathomable scale to sweat shops, as horrible as they are as well, is in my opinion incredibly dishonest or self delusional. Last time I checked they don’t have suicide prevention nets in the animal industry and human male babies aren’t ground up alive in sweat shops by the billions and the trillions while nobody except a vegan minority bats an eye.

That’s without mentioning the huge benefits it would have on the environment if everyone who can go vegan actually went vegan. So much land that is being deforested for crops that go to feed animals could be reforested and help slow or even reverse global warming which is getting harder and harder to stop every day in the current trajectory, since we can feed humans using far less land and water by eating plants directly.

I can’t know the exact supply chain of every single product that I buy, so it would be a moral virtue to do so but not a moral obligation when it comes to something like a t-shirt. However, I know beyond any shadow of a doubt that if I buy meat, an animal had to die for that, the environment had to pay a much bigger price regarding resources like land, water and carbon footprint than if I ate plants instead and by eating plants instead I probably also reduce my risk of heart disease and strokes depending on how processed vs. whole is the plant food I eat. Can I make all of those claims regarding a t-shirt which I could also get second, third or fourth hand from clothes trading events while still being vegan?

Ah, but you know that 99% chance your t-shirt under capitalism is from a sweat shop! That’s still not coming close to the atrocity of the animal holocaust, the environmental and public health cost. T-shirts don’t cause heart attacks, but animal products oxidize our blood vessels and contribute to the number one killer in the western world – heart disease.

The degrees of seperation argument of no ethical consmption under capitalism works when it comes to something that is exploitative *because* of capitalism, but an animal industry under socialism would be just as bad and we have no reason to believe that switching to socialism would inherently lead to abolishing the animal industry and every indication from past experience demonstrates that humans use their big brains to make excuses for what boils down to putting their taste pleasure above ethics, health and the very environment the human race needs to survive. The same “feels over reals” that Vaush claims to be against.

Whereas they could instead use those big brains to acknowledge the value of all sentient life, be consistent with their ethical values and concede that we have to eat no matter whatever else we do with our time, finance and energy – so eat vegan, it saves animals, saves the environment we need to survive and might even save you depending on how much of your diet is processed vs. whole plant foods. This is a seperate issue from capitalism vs. socialism that can and should be dealt with both from the top down and the bottom up, and with global warming it is an urgent human race survival issue.

And how would you go about doing any large social change if not using both top down and bottom up approaches? Is praxis not often bottom up? Is spreading class conciousness that Vaush advocates and tries to do himself not bottom up? You can’t wash your hands off any bottom up activism because you think top down would be more efficient, because often bottom up is all you have, because often just getting to the point where top down change can happen is through bottom up activism. Vaush’s entire channel is one big bottom up leftie project. So what he said about “only top down tho” is also being inconsistent with his values and actions, selectively applying it to leftie values but not veganism.

Another thing Vaush said in his discussion with Ask Yourself is that he would be too mentally weak from not having the pleasure of animal products to offset the stress of life that he would not be able to come on YouTube and make his videos and streams. This is kind of hypocritical if you see enough of his content where you will find he often boasts about his will power and mental fortitude as what sets him apart as a leftie with a tough guy aesthetic, yet he can’t bring himself to do what’s right because of taste pleasure.

Finally, he said that if it was his call to make, Vaush would abolish the animal industry. I really find that hard to believe considering he doesn’t have the mental fortitude to go vegan now. There is nothing about socialism that inherently entails veganism, that’s a seperate issue that you need to have the moral backbone to stand on right now even under capitalism if you care about the well being of innocent sentient beings, for whom there is no reason to deny them the same basic rights to life, bodily autonomy and freedom from exploitation that we generally think humans deserve. Vaush, I would assume, thinks those are basic rights humans deserve and he did not name a trait to Ask Yourself that would ethically differentiate humans from other animals in this regard when it comes to these basic rights.

If we are consistent with our valuing of humans and as an extention of that other sentient beings since they have the same traits as humans that would cause us to value humans ethically on the level of these basic rights, we can’t make excuses like capitalism tho, sweat shops tho and t-shirts tho because we don’t pay for the meat of humans to be packaged after they lived in a cramped cage their entire short life full of suffering and we wouldn’t compare that to sweat shops as a justification to be able to buy human meat for taste pleasure since all consumption under capitalism is unethical when plant based alternatives are available, and if you want to say human meat is not ethically the same as other animal meat, then it boils down to name the trait and as I said before, Vaush had no argument against name the trait – only “capitalism tho”.

As for the challenge of going vegan, there are plenty of people who would love to help Vaush go vegan, not just me but also many others judging from the response to his discussion with Ask Yourself. Vaush probably has a local Challenge 22 group in his town that helps transitioning to veganism if he googles the keywords “challenge 22” and his town, or on facebook and failing that there is the help-me-go-vegan room in Ask Yourself’s discord. From a consequentialist stand point as well, having someone with a significant social media presence go vegan is always a great boost to the vegan movement.

Buying animal products is not a private decision

When non-vegans say “mind your own business, what I eat is my own private decision” they think they aren’t making an anti-vegan argument, they think they are just venting frustration about some vegan who annoyed them, but they are. Not only that, they think they are stating a true fact, but they aren’t. Dominant ideologies tend to be invisible like that. People think that if they are not conciously questioning the dominant point of view that they are being apolitical, but they are being just as political as the vegans who annoy them, supporting the dominant ideology with what they say and do, whether conciously or subconciously.

Try to stop plugging your ears and eyes and read this: when you pay for animal products, you are paying for sentient beings to be exploited and killed. Your choice to eat animal food when and if you have plant based alternatives is inherently affecting someone else, it is inherently not a private decision.

This might hurt your feelings to read this, but by that logic I could say “mind your own business, where I put my hands is my own private decision” if I use them to punch someone. I am sorry if that hurts your feelings, but the fact is that paying for animal products is inherently not a private matter that affects only you.

Now you might have other arguments that you think justify that decision, but it is factually incorrect to say it is a private decision, because if we accepted that logic, it would justify allowing people to kill and rape each other because what they do with their bodies is their own business, their own private decision. Your right to bodily autonomy ends where it infringes on somebody else’s bodily autonomy, right to life, right to not be exploited.

And in this society animals do not have the same basic rights to bodily autonomy, right to life and right not to be exploited as humans, but to morally justify that you would have to name the trait that justifies doing it to other animals but not to humans, such that if that trait were applicable to humans, it would justify doing it to humans as well.

It boils down to name the trait. It always does and it’s not a private decision.

And if you don’t want a vegan who didn’t say anything to you to “get in your business”, try not insisting to them again and again and again that your financial support of the animal products industry is a “private decision” when venting about what another vegan said to you. In fact, maybe find a non-vegan to vent to them about what an annoying vegan said to you. They won’t feel they have to shut up and hear your say “private decision tho” again and again without challenging it, otherwise they are “forcing themselves on you” when that’s what you are doing in far more severe ways to innocent sentient beings by financially supporting the animal products industry.

Reducing heat and itching

Global warming doesn’t seem to be stopping any time soon, and as a bald trans woman who sweats a lot while wearing a hair system outside which inevitably leads to unending itching in those areas that makes me want to bang my head against a wall just to feel something other than itching, especially in the summer – you can imagine I have been highly motivated to find some sort of solution for this problem.

Well, it’s not a solution more than it is mitigation, and it doesn’t look graceful, pretty or “feminine”, but it reduces my suffering so I do it.

I carry with me a water spritzer at all times and spritz water on my face every 30 seconds if needed and you would be surprised how a small water spritzer can easily last an entire day even if you spritz that often because every spritz doesn’t contain all that much water. This is a form of external “pre-emptive” sweating where the water vapors cool my face much more effectively because I’m not waiting for my body to be like OMG I AM SO EFFING HOT before perspiring, so my face starts cooling before that happens.

Of course, you need to be careful around electronics you might be carrying such as your cellphone or laptop but you can carefully angle the spritzer and use distance to not hit electronics.

If I combine the spritzer together with a mobile usb powered fan and a usb external battery pack to keep it going all day, it becomes a sort of mobile air conditioner where it can be super hot outside 33 degrees celsius but at least my face is like 25 degrees celsius which is where heat causes me the most suffering, namely never ending itching.

So there is a little tip on how to deal with global warming before we all die horrible deaths because people can’t be asked to stop eating animal products and replace them with plant foods or regulate/replace capitalism which is destroying the environment we need to survive. I’m sure someone will make a cheap drone that carries a fan and water spritzer while also taking awesome selfies before that happens.

Me constantly carrying a water spritzer and fan wherever I go

Against Trans Medicalism | My pain does not define who I am

This post is a reply where I disagree with the content of a video that YouTube recommended I watch “Transexual v Gender Radicals” where a transexual woman advocates for trans medicalism though she never calls it that. Refuting such claims often takes longer than stating the claims themselves, so this post will inherently be a bit of a long read. You can watch the video if you want for full context, but if you’ve already heard trans medical claims such as if you don’t have gender dysphoria you’re not really trans, there is nothing new or groundbreaking here and this post can be taken as a general stance against trans medicalism and the same old tired arguments they make again and again.

It’s very convenient for people to make these kinds of videos against the validity of non-binary genders without actually addressing the full arguments made by the opposition, taking short sound clips and turning them into empty straw man versions of the original arguments and admittedly some people don’t practice good argumentation because their videos weren’t necessarily targeted to convince anyone but to provide a resource for people who need it.

I’m not expecting you to do any better here, but I’ll give it a shot anyway. Oh, and by the way, I myself am a transexual and I did every surgery I could to feminize myself and I identify as a trans woman, only feminine pronouns and I began my transition almost 6 years ago, soon turning 40. Unfortunately I understood I’m a woman only at age 32, went bald at age 21 (my dad at 19) so the results of my transition were limited despite doing everything I could do to transition as well as I could.

That’s just a general background about me so you can’t dismiss me as being a “gender snowflake”, I’m a binary transexual woman just like you and I still am in favor of people being able to be their gender if they say they are that gender, and I’ll explain in detail why.

After that, I will explain why doing so would actually help trans people, whereas what you propose actually hurts trans people, both transexuals and transgenders, especially non-passing transexuals with gender dysphoria.

This is a transgender woman. (me) She also happens to be a transexual woman, but this is not always the case.

Why you are your gender if you say you are your gender

In the science about gender and sex, these are two seperate terms that denote two different things. Gender is everything that has to do with identity, and as such, is subjective and socially constructed and has meant different things in different times, societies and cultures. Sex is everything that has to do with biological characteristics associated with male and female categories. Man and woman are genders, male and female are sex categories.

Even within sex characteristics, the science shows that it isn’t a strict binary, but bimodal. Extreme examples of this are intersex people, but you can observe this in the general population too with facial characteristics. There are facial characteristics that you tend to see more in assigned male and assigned female people, but generally the vast majority of people have a mix of both. For example, a female might have wide open eyes, a small up turned nose but a square jaw. A male might have very hooded eyes, but also a round chin and angular jaw.

However, especially when it comes to gender, things are increasingly arbitrary the more you look back in history. The whole blue for boys and pink for girls? That was just a result of a toy company running out of dye. Pink used to be strongly associated with manhood. Have you ever heard the expression “a real man”? It’s been used to socially pressure people assigned as men to behave in various contradictory ways in different times and places. Men wear short hair? There were cultures where it was quite manly for a man to wear a long wig.

By confusing gender and sex, you make it seem as if people are claiming to physically be female, male or intersex when they are making claims about their gender, which is by definition a matter of identity, which is intersubjective and on a large enough time and geographical scale shown to be arbitrary, therefore if you say you are a certain gender then you are that gender – by definition.

Gender is also not the same as attack helicoptor or tree or donkey or whatever, because those are physical things, not identity. When someone is saying they are agender or bigender or non-binary they are not making any claims regarding their physical body or the nature of themselves as a biological organism or inanimate object.

Transexual and transgender are two seperate things. There is a larger likelihood if you are transgender to also be transexual, but it doesn’t have to be the case. A transexual is someone who changes or wants to change characteristics in their body associated with their sex assigned at birth.

Sometimes I wear a hat instead of a hair system or wig, because I like how it looks or it’s quicker to put on. Sometimes I dye my hair to a different color… but if my identity being valid depends on how far I am willing to go to pass, then it’s my fault that I am misgendered if I dye my hair away from my natural color or don’t wear my hair system. You know, just like how cis women get misgendered when they dye their hair! #beingsarcastic

But chromosomes tho! Genitals tho! Wombs tho!

When you “clock” a stranger in the street (referring to gender recognition) you generally don’t see their chromosomes, their wombs nor their genitals. At least, I imagine in the societies where most people read this that this doesn’t happen. We “clock” someone based on a mixture of gender cues like clothes they wear, makeup, voice, how they move, etc. and secondary sex characteristics such as facial bone structure.

Therefore, chromosomes, wombs and genitals are all largely irrelevant for daily functioning in society. If we’re talking medical discussions and dating, then sure, you can tell your doctor or your potential date that you have a penis if that happens to be the case, but that doesn’t mean you’re not a woman. In contexts where your sex is relevant, talk about your sex, but there is no argument to have that impact your daily life and ability to live as your gender, whatever your gender might be.

Maybe my chronic bloating can pass as pregnancy?

Why trying to police gender is harmful to everyone

You claim that “gender radicalism” (i.e. accepting a person’s gender based on them saying they are that gender) is more harmful than anything else to trans people. You’re basically arguing that trans people need to be able to assimilate and all this “gender radicalism” is just making it harder rather than easier. You’re like the “good gays” who said we need to prove to the straights that we are just like them rather than saying “we’re different and that’s okay, we shouldn’t have to be just like you to be accepted for who we are”.

This works only for the people who can truly assimilate, who can completely pass, who have the perfect transition. I don’t know how many trans people actually achieve that. There are social and economic barriers that prevent access to the necessary treatments for many people, and depending on your starting point when you transition, some people can never fully pass no matter how much money they throw at the problem, no matter how much they work on their manuerisms, their voice, their hair, their clothes, etc.

For all of these people, myself included, relying on this trans medicalist view of transness puts all the burden on trans people to do their best to pass and zero burden on society, and if you fail to pass, well then tough, you just have to live with gender dysphoria being triggered every day by misgendering for the rest of your life, and we can all bicker and fight on how you didn’t try hard enough to pass and judge you for dying your hair a weird color so you’re practically asking to be misgendered even though a cisgender woman would not have to deal with that. How exactly is having trans people police other trans people and reinforcing society’s policing of trans people supposed to help trans people?

This also reinforces stereotypical gender roles for cis people too. If a trait is beneficial, it should be considered for its benefit regardless of its association with gender. If a trait is harmful, then associating it with gender is harmful to people of that gender. Having an ever increasing number of genders is a wonderful way to gradually break down gender and remove it from society so that everyone can just choose their preferred traits based on their merits.

In a post gender world, I know that sounds scary to you but hear me out, where society recognizes gender is arbitrary, subjective and seperate from sex – people will learn to respect everyone’s gender regardless of how they look, and you can still be transexual if you want, you can still change your body if you want, but you won’t be pressured to do all these things on pain of society constantly denying your gender. You can do it simply because you personally are uncomfortable with that body part being that way, and that’s a huge source of emotional pain in itself without adding to it the external societal pressure trans people, both binary and non-binary, suffer from today.

Sometimes I go out of the house without makeup *gasp* and therefore, I’m not really a woman because I’m not trying hard enough to pass, and if I were really a trans woman I would have too much gender dysphoria to ever go out of the house without makeup! You know, the way cis women have to wear makeup to not be misgendered. #beingsarcastic

The importance of pain

I understand the things a transexual woman goes through to try and pass, I have done them all and continue to do them all today. However, I don’t agree that we should define ourselves by our pain. I don’t think we should begrudge the next generation having things easier than we did. I can be jealous of them. I can feel bad for how unfair it is while still being in favor of things getting better or being better for them.

Is it fair that my father went bald at age 19 and I inherited that gene and went bald at 21 and now I have to wear a hair system all the time and it itches all the time? No! Should every trans woman have to do that even if she has hair because I do it, otherwise she isn’t a real trans woman because she doesn’t experience my suffering related to hair loss which makes passing as a woman harder for me? Of course not!

So why should non-binary and non-passing trans people have to be restricted by being defined by their pain, their gender dysphoria or lack thereof, to define who they are?

I can be jealous of a more passing trans woman than me who started at age 19 while still being happy for her looking more pretty and feminine than me.

I can be jealous of someone fighting only a year to get her surgery or not at all while still providing papers proving that after 3 years my surgery was approved, to make it easier and quicker for others to prove that these surgeries are approved despite claims that they aren’t as excuses to make approval difficult or impossible.

And I can be jealous of someone not needing to go through all the surgeries I went through and not feel gender dysphoria, while also being happy for them that they don’t suffer like I do.

And I can feel all this pain and be trans while also recognizing people who don’t feel this pain can also be trans.

We shouldn’t let pain define who we are, lest we replicate the same oppression we experience and repeat it on others.

So even from a consequentialist point of view, your hinging of transness on gender dysphoria is bad for everyone except perhaps the rare trans women who are super gorgeous and super passing to ridiculous degrees that even cis women don’t need to uphold lest they be misgendered on a daily basis and have people arguing they aren’t “real women”.

They say “no pain, no gain” but I feel no pain when I’m showing my gains and well, I actually run because I enjoy running

A final personal note

Of course i would like to pass. It’s what I wish for more than anything. I basically have three major wishes I would like to come true: 1. to not be bald 2. to not have such sunken eyes despite forehead and orbital rim reductions I did which is a very prominent and highly associated as a male secondary sex characteristic 3. to not be constantly bloated.

Of those 3, the first 2 seem unattainable with current options from my years of trying to find solutions. For the last one there is some hope right now since it turns out I might have SIBO, and if that turns out to be true, that can be treated. The baldness I’ll probably have to wait for new technology to grow new hair follicles and the facial bone structure just can’t be changed because my starting point was too extreme in male range pending further advancements in the field.

Because of this, every day I go out I get misgendered. Every time I make a phone call, I get misgendered despite learning voice feminization. Every time I go out I need to deal with lots of itching from my hair system, no matter how expensive or advanced it is and how much I care to wash it. I can reduce the itching by going around with a water spritzer and fan on me all the time, but that doesn’t look very “feminine and graceful”, does it? And every night that I want to go to sleep, I have to take the hair system off and see the remaining male facial bone structure I could not remove in its full gender dysphoria triggering detail – otherwise, I just can’t fall asleep due to the itching. Believe me, I’ve tried.

So I know what it is to go through surgeries, from facial, to breast enlargement to bottom surgery and everything involved, to not pass despite doing everything I could. I know the pain of being transexual, I am jealous of people who pass as their gender and despite all I know about sex and gender and wishing I wouldn’t need to pass, I still want to, really really want to.

And even though I want to, my feels are irrelevant to gender and sex being two different things, that gender is arbitrary, sex is bimodal and a society where my gender would not be erased no matter how I look, indeed where gender would be removed from language (I live in Israel where even inanimate objects in Hebrew get gender pronouns) would be a better society, where I would only have to deal with my internal pain without also having to deal with society constantly telling me I will never be feminine enough to be a woman, where people of all genders or no genders can take on characteristics based on the individual merits and functions of those characteristics rather than to slide neatly into a gender mold.

The trans medicalism you are advocating only reinforces that I am at fault or my body is at fault for 100% of my gender related pain and puts zero pressure on society to learn to accept that I am a woman, a trans woman, which is still a woman just like a cis woman is a woman. Even without considering non-binary gender acceptance, this view of transness is harmful to binary trans people as well. My pain will most likely always be there until the day I die, but it doesn’t define who I am and I will not pander to people’s fear of someone who is different from them by trying to hide my difference, by saying “look, I’m the same as you, not like those weirdos”. I will tell them I am different, I am a weirdo and there is nothing wrong with that.

Lugging a fan and a water spritzer with me at all times to combat my itching, my pain can always be there but yet it still doesn’t define me